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What to Expect on Day One of Counselling: Demystifying the First Session
If you’re thinking about starting counselling in Basingstoke , the very first session can feel like the biggest step. Walking through...
Annie Best
Sep 92 min read


3 Ways You Can Tell If You Have Low Self Esteem
Let’s be honest – most of us struggle with self esteem from time to time. It's completely normal. But when those negative feelings about...
Annie Best
Jun 83 min read


Understanding the 6 Stages of Change And Why Every Stage Matters
One of the most important things I want my clients to know is this: change doesn’t happen in a straight line, and that’s completely okay....
Annie Best
May 262 min read


Why Therapy Might Not Work for You (Yet): The Hard Truth About Readiness
Therapy can be life-changing. It can help you understand yourself more deeply, process pain, and build a more grounded, fulfilling life....
Annie Best
May 192 min read


Maslow Was Right: Why Your Basic Needs Matter
All too often in my practice, I often meet people who feel anxious, low, overwhelmed, and deeply confused about why. They’re trying...
Annie Best
May 141 min read


You Don’t Have to Perform in Therapy – You Just Get to Be
Hi, I’m Annie – and if you’re new here, welcome. I offer counselling in Basingstoke, and one of the most common things I hear from new...
Annie Best
May 72 min read


Things I Want You to Know About Counselling With Me
As a counsellor based in Basingstoke – I wanted to share a few things with you about what it's really like to be in the counselling...
Annie Best
Apr 292 min read


Counselling: More Than a Quick Fix – It’s a Journey
Whether you’re just exploring the idea of counselling or already on your journey, I wanted to share a little something that often comes...
Annie Best
Apr 232 min read


Why “Good Communication” Isn’t Always Easy – and How to Practice It
Let’s be honest, we’ve all heard how “good communication is the key to everything,” haven’t we? Whether it’s with your partner, your...
Annie Best
Apr 162 min read


There’s More Than One Way to Be Smart 🧠✨
I see it all the time in my counselling work with young people and adults alike — the quiet pressure to be a certain type of smart . You...
Annie Best
Apr 132 min read


Top 3 Things I Learned During My Counselling Training
I thought I’d take a moment to share some of the big lessons I learned during my counselling training. Whether you’re considering...
Annie Best
Apr 63 min read


Embracing the Change: Navigating Mental Health During Warmer Weather
As we move into the warmer months, many of us look forward to longer days, sunshine, and a sense of renewal. The arrival of spring and...
Annie Best
Mar 313 min read


The Benefits of Using CBT in Therapy: A Friendly Approach to Understanding and Healing
As an integrative counsellor, I believe in the power of using a wide range of therapeutic approaches to meet each individual’s unique...
Annie Best
Mar 263 min read


Healing Your Inner Child: What It Means and Why It Matters
Have you ever heard the phrase, “You need to heal your inner child”? It can sound a little abstract or even a bit intimidating at first,...
Annie Best
Mar 244 min read


Overcoming Perfectionism: Embracing Imperfection
I want to talk to you about something I’m sure many of us can relate to: perfectionism . I’m going to be real with you here—perfectionism...
Annie Best
Mar 182 min read


Understanding How You Communicate: A Simple Guide to Building Better Relationships
If you’re reading this, you might be curious about why you react a certain way in certain situations or how to communicate better with...
Annie Best
Mar 174 min read


Imposter Syndrome: Why You Feel Like You’re Not Good Enough (Even When You Are)
Ever feel like you’re just pretending to be good at something, even though you’ve put in all the work and have the experience to back it...
Annie Best
Mar 123 min read
How to Identify and Challenge Anxious Thoughts
If you’ve ever found yourself caught up in a spiral of anxious thoughts, you’ll know just how overwhelming it can be. One minute,...
Annie Best
Mar 105 min read


The Power of Self-Compassion in Healing: A Tool for Mental Well-being
Today, I want to talk about something that often comes up in therapy with my clients: self-compassion . Now, I know the term might sound...
Annie Best
Mar 65 min read


Stress vs. Anxiety: Let’s Talk About It
What is Stress? Stress is our body's natural reaction to life's challenges. Whether it’s deadlines at work, a busy schedule, or an...
Annie Best
Mar 32 min read
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